I love James’ blog. He always has insightful, thought-provoking things to say about men, women and relationships. I recommend this post and also recommend you take a look at more of his entire blog. These ideas, insights and good sense come from a young man, and read like wisdom from your elders, they are so timeless, true and worthy of your read.
“Chemistry is not just about physical attraction – it goes far beyond that into the realm of emotional connection. Chemistry is what makes you want to put effort in for someone. It makes you want to see them happy. It is the spark that links you together like two electrified magnets.
It is the ability to laugh together, to cry together, to feel together. And, most of all – the willingness to do so.”
I recently had a discussion with a very insightful woman about what she feels to be the four building blocks of any relationship – all of which must be in place for the relationship to work. I like to think of these as four quarters you would attempt to trade in for a dollar – without all four, you don’t get what you want.
Basic, simple, but essential. Without some sort of physical attraction, the relationship will not get far enough to meet any of the other criteria in the first place. There is not much to explain in this point, just the necessity to be attracted enough to someone to desire pursuing something more with them.
Or, the ‘zaa-zaa-zoo,’ as she calls it. Beyond just looking at someone and seeing physical attractiveness, is the deep desire for them we have as feelings increase. Anyone who has felt…
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